what are calling hours

Calling hours, also known as a viewing, wake, or visitation, are a time for friends, family, and acquaintances of the deceased to come together to support each other in their time of grief, remember the life of the deceased, give condolences to the family, and pay their respects to the deceased. They are usually held in the evening of the day before a funeral or memorial service, although they may be held on the same day as well. Calling hours are an intimate gathering for those who knew the deceased, and they may feel more structured and formal than other aspects of the service. It is acceptable to invite a more select group to calling hours than other aspects of the service, and it is not necessary to stay for a long time at the calling hours. If you decide to bring your children to calling hours, they should be supervised, and it is important to explain the purpose of calling hours to children ahead of time so that they know what to expect. It is entirely up to each individual whether or not to attend calling hours, and attending calling hours is a respectful way of expressing support and offering condolences during this difficult time if you have a close relationship with the deceased.