Sounds like you’re referencing the classic song “Why Can’t We Be Friends?” by War! The song’s message is about overcoming differences and conflicts to embrace friendship instead. In a broader sense, there can be many reasons why people sometimes struggle to be friends—like misunderstandings, prejudice, fear, or different backgrounds—but the song suggests that these barriers don’t have to stand in the way of friendship if we choose to be open and kind. Is there a specific situation or feeling behind your question? I’m here to listen and help if you want to talk more!