Autistic children require special care and attention, and there are certain things that should be avoided when interacting with them. Here are some things not to do with an autistic child:
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Dont try to "cure" them: Autism is not a disease that needs to be cured. Trying to cure them can lead to frustration and disappointment for both the child and the caregiver.
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Dont blame every problem on their autism: Its important to recognize that autistic children are individuals with their own unique personalities and challenges. Blaming every problem on their autism can be unfair and unhelpful.
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Dont punish them for stimming or meltdowns: Autistic children may engage in repetitive behaviors or have meltdowns due to sensory overload. Punishing them for these behaviors can be counterproductive and cause more stress.
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Dont give complicated tasks: Be specific, direct, and concrete about what you want them to do. Instead of saying "The trash is full," say "Please take out the trash." Dont ask if they want to take out the trash, because they may say no even if they will do it anyway.
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Dont suddenly change their routine: Autistic children often thrive on routine and predictability. Sudden changes can be overwhelming and cause anxiety.
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Dont stop autistic children who stim: Stimming is a way for autistic children to regulate their sensory input. Stopping them from stimming can be harmful and cause more stress.
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Dont force autistic children to eat food they dislike, reward them for finishing their plate, or punish them with food: Autistic children may have sensory issues with food and may be very selective about what they eat. Forcing them to eat food they dislike or using food as a reward or punishment can be counterproductive.
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Dont yell at them: Yelling can be overwhelming and cause anxiety for autistic children.
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Dont make choices for them: Allow autistic children to make choices for themselves within reason. This can help them feel more in control and independent.
Its important to keep in mind that every autistic child is unique and may have different needs and preferences. Patience, communication, and a positive attitude can go a long way in building a strong relationship with an autistic child.
