what is a repass ceremony

A repass ceremony, also known as a repast, funeral reception, or funeral ceremony, is a gathering of family and friends after a funeral service. It is an opportunity for mourners to offer condolences to the immediate family and to support each other through a difficult time. Repasses are usually less formal than a funeral service or memorial and are often open to everyone who attended the funeral, though a private funeral repast might be a choice for some families. Repasses are typically held in a public reception hall, either in a funeral home, church, local community center, or restaurant. The event usually involves a meal, which can be an entire meal or just snacks and drinks, depending on the wishes of the family. The meal can consist of light appetizers such as finger sandwiches with condiments, heavy courses including pie or cake desserts, and other food items that attendees bring to share potluck style. The exact activities that happen during a repass will vary depending on the familys wishes as well as religious customs. In addition to a meal, a repass provides a space for people to talk, reminisce, and support each other through a difficult time. Some common activities that also happen at a repass include an open mic, toasts, or stories from loved ones remembering and celebrating the deceased.