The bases of dating are a set of slang terms used to describe different levels of physical intimacy in a relationship. The specific definitions of each base can vary depending on who you ask, but here are some common interpretations:
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First base: Kissing, making out, and French kissing. Anything you might do on a first or second date is usually included in first base.
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Second base: Physical touching above the waist, such as touching and/or fondling of genitalia over clothes.
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Third base: Stimulating anywhere below the waist, such as verbally sharing vulnerabilities, handjobs, oral sex, or touching under clothes.
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Home base: Penetrative sex, depending on what both people feel comfortable with.
Its important to note that these bases are not technical terms and can mean different things to different people. Additionally, its crucial to always ask for consent before, during, and after any sexual activity.
