In the scenario where your friend Tiana is being harassed by a group of guys, the best way to step in as an active bystander involves safely intervening using strategies like direct action, distraction, delegation, or delay, depending on the situation and your comfort level. Here are some effective ways you might help Tiana:
- Approach and accompany Tiana : Walk with her past the group, making small talk and offering support. This can help her feel safer and less isolated. After passing the group, you can talk to her about avoiding that area or suggest safer routes in the future
- Distract the harassers : Interrupt the situation by creating a distraction, such as starting a conversation with the group or the harasser, which can defuse the tension and give Tiana a chance to move away safely
- Delegate : If you do not feel safe intervening directly, seek help from others nearby, such as friends, staff, or authorities who can step in
- Direct intervention : If safe, calmly tell the harasser that their behavior is unacceptable or check in with Tiana to see if she is okay
- Delay : If the situation feels unsafe to intervene immediately, wait until it is safe and then check in with Tiana to offer support and help her take any further action if she wants
The key is to prioritize safety-for both yourself and Tiana-while signaling that such behavior is unacceptable. Even small actions like walking with her or creating a distraction can make a significant difference
