how did tudors have sex

The Tudors had sex mainly within the strict boundaries set by the church and society, which emphasized sex only within marriage for the purpose of procreation. The only accepted sexual position was the missionary position, with the man on top and the woman beneath, as other positions were believed to incite lust or reduce the chance of conception. Sex outside of marriage, at forbidden times such as Wednesdays, Fridays, and during religious periods, or in other positions or methods (including oral or anal sex, or contraception) was condemned. Despite these strict rules, historical evidence shows that many Tudors had active sex lives, including adulterous affairs and sex in various places, often ignoring the rules. Women were taught that they could only conceive if they enjoyed sex, including experiencing orgasm, which made female pleasure significant within marital sex. Sex was also seen as a rite of adulthood and an important bond within marriage. Early marriage and consummation sometimes led to young girls bearing children, which could have lasting physical effects. Despite official prohibitions, many couples engaged in sexual activities according to their desires rather than church rules. In summary, Tudor sexual norms were rigidly controlled but frequently disregarded in practice, with sex primarily confined to marriage, within the missionary position, and for reproduction, yet with a notable acknowledgment of female pleasure's role in conception.