consent is an ongoing process of clarification. if someone becomes unable to clarify what they want, but they’ve given consent in the past, is it ok to continue? read the scenario below and think about what you would do in ian’s situation.maria invites ian over to her place to watch a movie. they consensually cuddle and kiss. it gets late, and maria falls asleep during the movie. ian wants to keep touching her, but she’s not responding. select the best response.

Consent is an ongoing, active process that requires clear and voluntary agreement at every stage. Even if someone has given consent in the past, that consent does not automatically extend to future situations, especially if the person is currently unable to clarify or communicate their wishes

. In the scenario where Maria falls asleep after consensually cuddling and kissing with Ian, Ian should stop touching her because Maria is not responsive and cannot provide ongoing consent at that moment. Continuing to touch or cuddle her while she is asleep would violate the principle of ongoing consent and respect for her autonomy

. The best response for Ian is to respect Maria’s lack of response and stop any physical contact until she is awake and able to communicate her wishes again. Moving or touching her without her consent, even with good intentions, is not appropriate

. In summary:

• Consent must be ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
• Past consent does not imply present or future consent.
• If a partner is asleep or otherwise unable to communicate, physical contact should stop.
• Respect and communication are key to maintaining consent