Ashley Jacobs, formerly of Southern Charm , is currently living in Santa Barbara, California, with her husband Mike Appel and their two sons. After her time on the show, she moved back to California where she works as a registered nurse. Ashley married Mike, a clothing brand owner, in June 2021, and they have two children together-their first son, Grayson Maxwell, was born in August 2021, and their second son was born in November 2024
. Ashley dated Southern Charm alum Thomas Ravenel from 2017 to 2018, a relationship that was marked by drama on the show. Since then, she has moved on and maintains a friendly, occasional social media contact with Thomas but has focused on her family and personal life. She has expressed that she has come a long way since her Southern Charm days and is grateful for her current life
. In summary, Ashley Jacobs is now a mother of two, married, living in California, and working as a nurse, having left the Charleston social scene behind after her Southern Charm stint.
